So DD does quite a full on activity, we've just moved to a new setting and one of the other girls has commented on her technique - which has upset DD - I've suggested that it isn't useful for the girls to comment uninvited on each others techniques but to leave that to the coaches - the girl understood she had been thoughtless, apologised - drama over ... or not.
The coach has decided to get involved and say the girl was just explaining her style of coaching - wtf - she wasn't there and didn't hear the comment, so is just saying DD is lying - then she told me she didn't want a bad atmosphere, like I was a trouble maker.
I don't understand why people do this, it's got nothing to do with her - I'm hopeless though, just smiled and said oh right, OK - teach me mumsnetters - how do I handle this unwanted interference? I need some good one liners as I'm sure this is going to happen again!