My BF has just phoned me and told me (I am divorced, teenagers, just turned 50, having the time of my life!), "do you know what you need...." I need a boyfriend (in his 50's), who is divorced with kids (no thanks, other peoples kids.......no thank you!)
I have to stop being extravagant, too many holidays (I go overseas once a month)
I need to get a proper job (no thank you, and be bossed around in an office - I currently potter about and cook for people - and earn equivalent of what I used to earn working in London)
I need to stop buying clothes (nothing fits me from last year, yes I have put on 1 stone, which she cannot believe). I bought 2 skirts from Next, £20 each. Hardly Harvey Nicks.
I have to stop hanging out with my loser friends (who are good company for me, they are all retired, and I meet up in the pub with them once a week, as I live on my own).
I need to get myself out and meet proper men (easier said than done....been divorced 10 years now and I have met every a/s out there).
I just thanked her for taking the time to coach me and I appreciated her advice (yawn).
What would you have done?? (I love my life, btw, I am happy and living for every moment).