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Inappropriate behaviour from boss's husband

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sparrowfart23 · 19/05/2018 11:22

I was at an event tonight, where my husband's boss came with her extended family. I met her husband for the first time earlier in the evening. I was passing their table in the restaurant when this man grabbed me and said I'm supposed to give you a big hug, and I'm supposed to give you a hickey on your neck. This in front of his family!! but the band was very loud so I don't know what they thought/saw. I made a joke and got away from him and left with my DD. I still feel gross about his mouth having been on my neck, albeit briefly. My husband is still there, I don't know if I should text him to explain or wait till he gets home, or say nothing. And I don't know what I should say to his boss (who is also my boss, for the time being). It was a social event, not a work do. Advice, please.

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Aprilmightbemynewname · 19/05/2018 11:26

Pretend it didn't happen. Carry hand sanitiser in your bag next time and get it out ready-and tell him you need to use it if he touches you.

sparrowfart23 · 19/05/2018 11:37

Thanks April. Just brushing it off was my first instinct, but I feel weird about my OH interacting with this drunk buffoon. I told my DD that someone had made me feel uncomfortable, and that you never have to stay in a situation like that, it's OK to just get out.

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twohandstwokids · 21/05/2018 13:42

If you do choose to brush it off, write an email to yourself with this story and keep it safe. Just in case.

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