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Fate or fantasy

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Olilou01 · 21/04/2018 21:46

Keep bumping in to crush.
Today i took a diff root driving. An low n behold a tall blonde cute guy walking towrds my car as i get to top of road. Checking him out .he noticed me doing it. Did an eyebrow flash . Then on second look he realised it ws me he did it to. He laughed an smiled an said u alright as a hello.
This guy knws i like him. Someone told him. He said he ws flattered.
But today he never knew it was me til after his eyebrow thingy an then second look at me made him realise who it was. Hes knwn for months i like him. His slip up today. If u call it that. Does it prove he is attrcted. Til he saw it was me. If he werent he would of been p.d off it was me he eyebrowed...
No neg comments. Yeh im not young before u ask am i school girl. But my mind is doing over time. Help me out a lil.

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Olilou01 · 21/04/2018 21:50

Does any1 beliece in fate. An that i took that road today . Does anyone believe fate throws u meetings til u finally ave to talk to one another.
I love the idea of it. The thought of forces at wrk u cant explain. Pushing u two together. Like something is bsnging our heds together to say get on with it its 2 obvious.

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FissionChips · 21/04/2018 21:51

You should write into one of those trash mags, you’d probably get £50 for it.

lozbeth · 21/04/2018 21:52

@Olilou01 def fate go for it what do you have to loose

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Olilou01 · 21/04/2018 21:54

Prob right. Feels like fate playing its part. An u knw i reckon he thinking same thing. No way id of knwn id see him. Or id ave dressed up 🤣

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Olilou01 · 21/04/2018 21:55

U teckon he is interested cause he eyebrowed first. An then smiled happily when he second glanced. First one sys i like what i see right?...

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Olilou01 · 21/04/2018 21:58

We wrk in same building. An i keep bumping in to him. This whole week has been endless meetings. But this has got me blown awy. I didnt knw it ws him til h3 looked up an eyebrowed by then he had done it an seen me liking what i see. He must of too.. right ?.

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GreenEyedGoose · 21/04/2018 22:05

🤔

Friggen hilarious 😂😂

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Olilou01 · 21/04/2018 22:06

Y?.

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Kocerhan3 · 21/04/2018 22:24

That all sounds fun but.... He said he was flattered? This would be my phrase if someone told me a person I wasn't attracted to liked me. Almost like "thanks but no thanks"

It sounds like he's enjoying the attention, and you're both having fun, but tread carefully

MyGastIsFlabbered · 21/04/2018 23:21

Surely if he's known for months that you like him he'd have made a move by now? I don't mean to piss on your chips but that's how I see it.

wobytide · 21/04/2018 23:28

He's a stickler for using vowels. Time to move on

LiteraryDevil · 22/04/2018 07:54

Maybe he could help you out and give you some o's

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Olilou01 · 22/04/2018 11:13

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lozbeth · 22/04/2018 21:53

@Olilou01 life's too short go for it and if it's good it's good but if not nothing ventured nothing gained. There been so many times I've gone for something and made a twat out of myself and guess what I'm still here so ignore the negative and think what do you have to loose.

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Olilou01 · 26/04/2018 17:27

Update. Another mate took it upon selve to tell him to talk to me cause i really like him. I was at wrk today an other manager fiund his email address. I mailed to say sorry abt mate today an that its second time some spoken 2 u. But i thought id mail to apologise for it happening. sorry!.

He didnt reoly. But maybe he not seen mail or not interested. Feel so stupid now. Would he wait few days to reply or would he of mailed bck to say not interested or say its fine dnt worry abt it.. did he see it an ignore it....

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Olilou01 · 01/05/2018 16:16

What does it mean when someone asks ur crush dont u fancy her. He says its not that at all. I think she is nice. Is this a let dwn or ur crush saying what?..

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WakeUpFromYourDreamAndScream · 01/05/2018 16:58

This can't be serious. You're either 13 OP or this isn't real. I can't believe a grown woman would carry on like this. Confused

Zeelove · 01/05/2018 17:18

Bet he's creeped out

Kocerhan3 · 10/05/2018 20:20

Ok stop now. He's not interested. The email was a nice thought but actually not the right way to do this. You're pestering him slightly. If he was interested he would've made a move by now. Hold you head high and move on

sonjadog · 13/05/2018 15:04

I'm having some trouble following this, but you are basing him being interested on you on him raising an eyebrow? As a rule, never base your belief on whether anyone is attracted to you by such small signs. There can be thousands of reasons why people make small gestures, and none of them to do with you at all. It´s the same with people who are sure men fancy with them because they look at them a lot. They might be looking a lot because they are wondering who is the woman looking at them.

The rule is: If he fancies you, he will show it clearly. You won't be second-guessing facial gestures. If he fancies you and you send him an email, he will answer it quickly.

From what I got from your posts, there are no reasons to believe that he fancies you.

Zaphodsotherhead · 13/05/2018 18:46

What does it mean when someone asks ur crush dont u fancy her. He says its not that at all

When anyone asks your 'crush' anything, it means you are either living in a Babysitters Club book circa 1993 or...

he's married. Or otherwise attached. And that's why, whatever all the 'eyebrow' stuff means (apart from you trying to read meaning into something that means nothing) he doesn't make any form of move.

LuluBellaBlue · 13/05/2018 18:50

Many people look attractive at first glance, then you either properly see them or get to know them and don’t feel the same way.
Don’t waste your time with this one, he sounds like a player.

SparklyMagpie · 15/05/2018 18:21

Oh Christ, this is one of the most embarrassing things I've read

I'm actually cringing for you

FTR- I'd move on

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