Cheater

[Newnaime]

Woman you've known for years, have worked together and got on with (but not a "friend") has a baby with live in boyfriend. You find out boyfriend is cheating on woman, very stupidly bravely having a full on relationship with other woman while playing happy families with woman you know.
Other woman works with woman and knows exactly what she's doing (isn't being lied to about the situation, she simply doesn't care about what she's doing)
Baby is 1 week old.
Would you tell woman?

Not when she has a week old baby, no. She won't thank you. You will rip her life apart, and she's too vulnerable.

I don't think I could bring myself to tell her, I'm sure I'd be the messenger that gets shot! It just breaks my heart what he's doing

Poor woman, it's horrific. Some men are a pure waste of oxygen sadly. It doesn't sound as if either of them are covering their tracks very well, chances are it's going to come out sooner rather than later.

I would tell her personally so she wasn't wasting her time on a idiot and she at risk of std's he probably sleeping with other women as well . As I see it think this way if it was you in her shoes and she knew your bf was cheating and didn't say anything how would that make you feel that she kept that from you I do the right thing and say it gently

Maybe give him The ultimatum to tell her or you will.

^^ This

The cheating asshole won't have the balls to do it but she needs to know one way or another. It obviously won't be great if you have to tell her but I'd hate it if someone knew and let me carry on believing a lie.

She needs to kick his ass to the curb and concentrate on looking after her little one.