have been divorced about a year now and we never finalised our finances however we came up with an agreement that I would continue to pay the mortgage whilst living in it with our son and he would pay the existing loan on the house which is finished in 4 years time he had the agreement written up by his solicitor and I now have this in writing he has now gone back on this agreement and says he wants the house sold, our son is only 14 and in full time education. I have been left with the costs of running the house all the other debts incurred during our marriage also a dog which is another mouth to feed, I get maintenance each week for our son, but no contribution towards any of the other debts, is it wrong for him to pay the loan when he no longer lives in the house even though I am paying the mortgage which is more than the loan and I am also on a lower salary than he is, I think he wants me to take on all the debt so that he can walk away debt free, the house was originally mine when we met, it was my grandfather and grandmothers before that my mum lives next door and helps out with my son I have neighbours that I have known for years so it wasn't just our marital home its a family home, if the loan is finished in four years are we able to stay in it till my son goes to university because by then the loan on the house will be over and I can get the mortgage in my name at the moment I cant do anything while we have a loan against the house, what other options do I have?