Hey all, so I need to know how you’d feel in my situation... I was meant to be out tonight with my sister and some other girls, friends and family etc. However my sister was diagnosed with flu earlier this week and when I saw her Tuesday she really didn’t look well so we agreed she was too poorly and we’d reschedule for the new year. I was a bit p’d off but obvs not her fault so what can you do. Ok so fast forward to yesterday and I see her on Facebook out with friends and snapchats of her having a fantastic time about 3am this morning. The night out we had planned for a good few weeks and I’m not sure whether I have a right to be annoyed or not?!? I live about 20 mins away from her and generally if we go out, (which only happens a handful of times a year) I will go over to her but this time around everyone was meant to be coming over to somewhere local to me. Now, had she said she couldn’t afford it or something I would have been like ok I’ll come to you but she hasn’t. It’s really hit me tbh. My oh says that no one makes the effort to come to me, they all drive, I always have to go to them etc and I’ve always just sort of shrugged it off but now I’m thinking maybe he’s right... it’s really upset me and got my questioning my whole persona tbh. Just don’t know how to feel about the whole situation 😔