Sorry if this sounds like a poor me thread but really after some advice.
It's my 40th on the 14th this month, however my sister-in-laws is 13th. She is having a party with the whole family and most of our mutual friends. (We don't get on very well as she is always trying to get one over on me).
I want to make an effort and dress nice but know whatever I wear won't be good enough. Also feel that my birthday will be completely overlooked as too close to hers.
Sorry in advance as I probably am feeling sorry for myself for no reason.