Please don't bash me. My XH came round to see our son. Because DS was ill XH stayed at our house. DS said he wanted a lay down and I took him upstairs. Not a problem XH and I have been getting on better and sat chatting. I hurt my foot several months ago and keep getting cramp like spasms which are really quite painful. I got one today and XH took my foot and massaged it which really did help ease it. He moved up my leg but I didn't stop him. As he got higher I leant over and kissed him. We ended up having sex while our DS slept. I cannot get pregnant so that is not a worry. I am happy as I am and don't want him back. We have got on so much better since he left. I just don't want him to think we have a chance at reconciliation. WWYD.