Hi,
Here again, resolution has not been reached.
My ex and I still live together as we wait for financial settlement.
Ex is now using a silly tactic to get me out of the house. He has turned kitchen worktop a dustbin, the whole worktop is covered in all sorts of rubbish. He knows I don't like dirt or untidiness so this would drive me out. Smelly trainers on the hallway. Intentionally making the house as dirty as possible while he makes sure he doesn't participate in cleaning.
Have spoken to him, he won't listen.
I understand Police cannot do anything about it because it's not a crime.
I do not want to overreact, but at the same time I don't want to share a kitchen or house with flies and rats. My health is very important to me, I do not know how long the court matter will run. It's not my intention to vacate the house before financial settlement is complete. Although I try to block things out, it is stressing me, though I choose to pretend.
Have been taking photos as evidence.
Is it a good idea to apply for an occupation order based on this matter?
Should I give a notice to him through his solicitors before I can do that.
There are no children involved.
I was told this order is draconian and judges don't look forward to asking home owners to leave their home.
He has a place where he can stay for free while we wait for the court outcome, I don't.
He's the legal owner.
Your assistance will be highly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
Sorry for the long trail.