WWYD? DH Facebook messaging another woman

[FirstTimeMum07]

First time poster, so please bare with me if I don't know some of the correct terminology

DH left his fb page open last night and went out, whilst out he messaged a woman who he knew from when he was a lad and had slept with, the woman was telling him all about an affair she's been having with her partners work colleague and all the stuff they used to get up to, he told her he had never cheated on me but the conversation was leading towards him saying he is wanting the single life and she was encouraging it, basically it was a conversation you wouldnt want your other half having with a member of the opposite sex, he asked for number and then deleted the conversation thread, so no idea how much further this convo has gone

Do i say something? Do I leave it and do some more digging?

Sorry for the long post

Gosh poor you. I'd have to ask him outright what on earth he's playing at before it goes any further. Insist he cuts ties with her.

That's what I'm worried about, that he will bring back round to me

I'd repeat to him word for word the conversation you read, then tell him the Single Life is all his

The trust is gone.

I don't think he would sleep with her, she had a famous persons name and I put a reference to this famous person up on fb today and this woman came up on convo and he said they had slept together and that she is dog ugly, no mention of talking to her last night, he's a tough one, I need to tread carefully with him

He sounds awful

I'd use this as your reason to split with him

Don't be taken for a mug

Who wants to be with a man who calls women dog ugly anyway

And why do you need to tread carefully?

He'll deny everything and turn it back on you most likely.

What makes you think he won't sleep with her ? You know for sure he is a liar.

And why do you think it a good idea to cling on to a man that likens women to dogs ?

Eh? Why do you need to tread carefully? He's betrayed you. You've done nothing wrong.
This would be a deal breaker for me. I'd never trust him again. I'd be gone, wouldn't give a shit what excuses he gave or whether he got mad about me seeing his Facebook.