being disowned

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Dh and I were disowned by a close family member a couple of years ago. Still following me on Facebook. Should I delete? finding it rather creepy

Yes, of course you should! Why should she see what's going on in your life when she's disowned you?

block her

Block.
Change your phone numbers.
Change your email.
If you have dcs, make sure this family member can't get to them at school.
Stop all photos of you and dcs on all social media, block them on all dcs social media, school websites, and any school published material.
I moved house and didn't tell any of my family members. I'm not in contact with my abusive parents.

I love them and worry that blocking will indicate I don't want them in my life again