So DD had a play date yesterday and when I picked her up a member of the friends family had given DD a pair of shoes that were too big for the friend. The shoes are a high heel stripper type shoes, red patent pleather with gold studs. I couldn't think of a polite way of saying "thanks but no thanks" at the time so we brought them home. I hate them and would never let DD be seen in them outside the house. Should I deliberately damage the shoes (so badly they need throwing away) or get over it and let DD enjoy a playing with these hideous hideous shoes? DD is 5 and absolutely loves the bloody things.