My dm is driving me insane and I'm not sure if it's me or her! Any advice would be appreciated!
We normally get on ok, normally if things are suiting her, i.e. Going out all the time for tea (me normally paying) or her coming to mine, or shopping,
anyway she recently went on holiday with my uncle who has learning difficulties for a week, they normally go for 3 or 4 days, I said it would be too much but she would go, on the holiday she would ring and and say how awful it was, I sympathise offer to look into flights home, she declined saying not that bad!
Since she got home it's been awful, there's been snipes at things I find sensitive, she's been needy. I done a night shift on Sunday night, I was selfish not offering to take her on a day out or to a beer garden, I've had an exam today, despite being in library all day yesterday, she wanted me to take her food shopping, she spent 10 pound, she's very active, still works, socialised ect.. today before my exam a text saying I'd have to pick her up from work at 6 as her foot hurts! I rang her to say exam went bad, and would she mind if I didn't pick her up, me and my partner were going to have lunch out and few wines.
She hung up, text message followed saying forget it! I can't win. My argument being she's at work, in a job on her feet, a 10 minute walk can't be that bad!