Met this guy..

[Amibonkersorwhat]

Random 1 but I met this guy at a course and you know when you just know there was something between us!

We couldn't stop smiling and chatting together but we were also both a bit shy.
I NEVER like anyone and have been single a long time but I can't stop thinking about him :(
I felt at the end he was kinda hovering (perhaps for my number?) but I befriended another lady who took my number so he left..

Am I a psycho if I ask the course leader to pass on my number?

I kinda feel he might think what a nutter 😆 🙈 But I also think if you don't ask you'll never know!

Advice please people 😬 Xx

Do it, you'll just never know if you don't.

Is there another way to find him - by Facebook or LinkedIn and perhaps message him that way?

He'll contact the course leader to get your info. Just wait. He'll do it. If he liked you as much as you liked him, he will track you down.

When was the course?

It was yesterday.
I'm embarrassed to say it was a speed awareness course :-/ (1st and last)

I don't know his full name so can't fb stalk 🙊

I'm thinking it's a bit much contacting the people who arrange these things to ask them to pass on my number! 🙈

For that sort of course I would just leave it tbh.

Does he know your last name? Maybe he will track you on fb.

Oh no! What a shame but for that type of course I don't think they'd help you so think you'll probably have to leave it

I doubt very much that the course leader would spend any time carrying messages, to be honest! Do you know his surname? If not it could be tricky finding him another way.

Maybe you could say you realised you have his pen and you'd have left that but it's engraved. If they say ''we'll pass it on'' then wrap up a bic biro with a message.

Depending on your settings he might come up as a suggested friend on Facebook seeing as you were in the same place together for so long

Did he drop any clues?

Annoyingly we don't know each other's surnames 😩

The pen idea could well be an option!
Or..
I was thinking I could tell a porkie and say he gave me his number which I then lost so would they be so kind to pass mine on! That way he has the option of messaging me or thinking I'm completely batshit crazy and hope he never bumps into me again 🙈

Am I nuts or what!? 😆 Xx

I'd try it. If the course leader says no or is funny about then you never have to see them again anyway. It could be worth the try!

Do it! You only live once and hopefully you'll never have to see the instructions again either. If you make a fool of yourself (which you won't) just drive really slowly forever.

Update ladies...

Happened to mention in passing to my friend what I was going to do (re stalk that guy) 😬
She asked his name
I said there's no way she'd know him or be able to find him online as I can't even spell his name (it's Greek)
said his name
She knows him!
Lovely guy
Said funnily enough she's always thought I'd really like him
He's doing some painting for her in a few weeks...
of course he's got a long term partner and 2 kids..
Story of my life 🙄
The End.

Thanks for your support though ladies 🙌🏼 The search continues.... and continues.. and continues....... 🙈

That's typical isn't it. At least you know!

My cousin had a similar encounter with her pharmacist picking up a prescription so I called and gave him her number.
She nearly punched me in the face but he called and they went on many dates!

Do it! Worst thing that can happen is he doesn't get in touch x

Oh no! I just read your update what a bummer!!!!

@MissSmiley If you make a fool of yourself (which you won't) just drive really slowly forever.

That really made me laugh 🤣

@MissSmiley If you make a fool of yourself (which you won't) just drive really slowly forever.

That really made me laugh 🤣

Me too!

Sorry op. At least you didn't move mountains to find his number! Keep looking. There's a lid for every saucepan (or so I'm told!).