In brief DH's Uncle is in hospital, his heart is shutting down.
He is too weak to have the operation, unable to talk and barely conscious.
DH is very close to him. I am extremely fond of him.
His large immediate family have been visiting but we could go this afternoon.
Dilemma is should I go? As he won't really be conscious it feels rather intrusive.
Also DH has a cold, should he be visiting a ward with very sick patients at all.
Normally I'm very decisive...