Scabby Ex, would you tell his family

[Welldoneme]

Anyone who has raised children single handedly knows how hard work it is.

The father of our children also has another family who do not know they have siblings and it sickens me greatly that he has nothing to do with our children. However, I see his other family photos on FB and insta all having a great time and he can't be arsed to send a birthday card.
I am so tempted to tell them, wwyd?
Reveal all or let sleeping dogs lie?

I personally would let sleeping dogs lie. My dds (12) dad walked out when she was 2 has never paid a penny and now has another family. Me dragging it all up will only hurt my dd at the end of the day.

I think I'd leave it, not for his sake, but for the other family. but block it all from fb and insta so you don't see the constant reminders. X

Leave it she might know and not care

Leave it. DD's father has never met her but he's gone on to have his 'only' daughter who he dotes on! I see him on FB etc but just laugh about it cause I'm confident he has not slept soundly for 9 years

And make sure he pays