NC for this as to not out myself.
ExH and I have been divorced for 3 years & have 3 DC. We get on really well and are friends. He's getting married in the summer, which I'm invited to and I'm also good friends with his fiancé.
Anyway LSS - I was invited to a friends reception party the other week, who are mutual friends of mine & ExH's. ExH's fiancé didn't go because she was working away.
ExH came up to me about 10:30pm (just as I was about to leave) to ask how I was getting home. I said I'd organised a taxi. ExH asked if he could join. Of course no problem, we're both going the same way. ExH is clearly very very drunk and can barely see straight, but as I said "yes of course" he said thanks, and went in to give me a kiss. I nervously laughed and pushed him away. Forgot about it after that.
Afterwards though, as we were getting out of the taxi, I expected him to start walking towards his house (he doesn't live so far from me) but he kind of just hung around for a while. I told him to go home but he said he wanted to stay with me. I obviously said no. In fact I laughed in his face. He then played the "so you're not gonna let me see my children" card. The kids were at my parents for the evening so I told him they weren't here.
He persisted and was convinced he was going to stay on my sofa. I told him no, he needed to go home and I'd walk him if I needed to.
He said he didn't want me to do that, eventually agreed to go home but again tried to kiss me and said "I'll always love you"
At first, I thought nothing much of it, I know that drunk ExH can be very touchy feely anyway and is a bit of a prat when he's drunk, but I just shrugged it off down to the fact he's probably feeling a bit lonely, considering his DP is away.
But the other day I got a text - it's his weekend with the kids this weekend, so I assumed it was about that. I opened the text which read "sorry for the other night. You deserve better than me, as we agreed all those years ago. You're a fantastic mother and I'll always love you for that."
I replied saying "you were just drunk. Don't worry about it"
He then said "but I know how I was feeling."
That was it I didn't reply.
Wtf would you do in this situation??? I really like his OH she is good friend, I have to tell her, right?!?!?!?