A friend and me have found each-other again after a long time. I was widowed (young) and he is newly divorced (I did not know her and we have met up again after his divorce not before, to be clear). However, he has only been divorced less than a year. Also we are quite a bit apart in age, nothing funny, I am middle aged he is just a bit older than middle age, newly retired. Do age gaps matter between middle age and later sixties? Also how easy is it to approach certain topics or not after someone has divorced after being married a long time? Any views? Smiling.