Unemployment is quite high where we are but there is stuff out there (I've just changed jobs myself). He's been unemployed for about 18 months and only half looking. What's really tipped me into fury recently is the procrastination. Since Trump was elected he spends every spare second he has on reddit arguing with strangers. Why can't he put the same effort into job hunting!?
Its reached the point where it's affecting our sex life as he ends up coming to bed hours after me. And it isn't porn either before any of you jump to conclusions. I have a look at the threads and he will be posting till 1-2am.
I have made my annoyance clear but how can I get him to stop without constant nagging which I don't like doing.