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Crime or not

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home2016 · 20/10/2016 16:16

so i recently posted my problem in regards to my daughters dad keeping her and refusing to bring her back police wont help nor will ss he wont open the door for me to take her myself but he is planning on moving in 3 weeks with my daughter and his gf he hasnt told me i found out of my husbands dad now he lets her play out so would it be against any laws for me to get a lift up there wait for her to go out to play and take her would i get done for kidnapping or abduction he has NO PR over her i do hes not on her birth certificate only has a DNA letter to prove hes her dad she lives with me and is only meant to go there for holidays so would i get arrested for this

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JellyBelli · 22/10/2016 23:22

Talk to Womens Aide, and se a solicitor on Monday. If you cant afford one, google for your nearest Law Centre. It depends who has custody, but he cant just keep her.

If the police have refused to assist you then make a complaint about that as well.
I'd be hysterical. Good luck Flowers

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home2016 · 22/10/2016 23:34

There's no custody order she has always lived with me my solicitor has said to try and get her back

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AnchorDownDeepBreath · 22/10/2016 23:37

What year was she born?

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home2016 · 23/10/2016 00:41

2010 why?

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PersianCatLady · 26/10/2016 15:53

2010 why?
I think may be because the PP was trying to ascertain whether your Ex has PR (parental responsibility for your DD).

So you have said that she was born in 2010.

Did your Ex go with you to the registry office and register your DD's birth?

If YES, then your Ex will have PR for your DD because from 1st December 2003, fathers who register a child’s birth with the mother automatically gain PR.

PersianCatLady · 26/10/2016 15:54

home2016
I am so sorry, you have already explained about PR.

I was in such a hurry to try and help you that I missed that bit.

PersianCatLady · 26/10/2016 15:58

refusing to bring her back police wont help
If your Ex does not have PR then the police should be helping you.

Are you sure that you explained it to them and if they understood what you were talking about as family law is quite complex?

Has your Ex made an application for a residence order or something like that as I know someone whose parents took her child from her and SS would not help as they had applied for an RO?

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