My story(DH) I will try and paint a picture that hopefully gives you an idea of what is going on in our lives...
I have used swinging sites for personal satisfaction..chatting swapping pictures etc. This has been going on for quite a number of years, 12 or 14 I think... I have been married for 10 years and have a number of children whom I love and adore...
My wife found out about my carrying on about 12 years ago and to her credit did not throw me out, I fact she joined in.. We then got married and had children and our sex life dwindle as it does, but my interest in these sites never really died. Fast forward a few years and we have swung together a handful of times which I enjoyed and assumed my DW did too... However it turns out she would rather meet alone, so with my blessing has done... twice... However the second meet has stirred feelings in me that I'm not totally comfortable with... She would like to meet up with this guy again but I'm not so sure... This has caused a lot of tension in our relationship and I think it's at breaking point... I guess I'm getting my just deserts... Should I suck it up and hope for the best or be more drastic in my actions?