Ladies - I need help.... I deliberately over-invited for our housewarming BBQ on the assumption that since it was summer hols lots of people would be away. I now have the event in 2 weeks and I've got 51 adults and 41 kids coming - was expecting about 60 altogether......help!! what should I do ? Can't cancel as I am actually looking forward to it, but my lovely husband is going a bit ballistic about the potential cost....I need some mumsnet hive mind advice please :0) TIA x