Hi, hoping for some views. Our plan to have our children looked after by family when we went into labour with our 3rd didn't go according to plan and we needed to ask a friend to come over and stay with the kids whilst we went to hospital. She had them two nights and about a day and a half in total. Trouble is though we are very close friends we have also paid her to babysit on our rare nights out and she used to work for me. What would be an appropriate Thank you? A gift? Or some cash? Or both? I don't want to offend her. Any ideas? Thank you!