which wedding would you go to?

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Hello all. I hope you can help with my wedding problem.

We committed to a wedding in August abroad and very much looking forward to it.

However, my partner's brother has now announced his wedding on the same day in England!

I am not close to my partner's brother and really want to go to the other wedding abroad.

Do you think my partner's brother's wedding takes precedence or should I stick to my original plan?

TIA

If you have already accepted your invite you should go to the wedding abroad and your partner can attend his brothers wedding alone.

I agree with Hairy.

Tricky, since it should be first come first served, but also a family wedding trumps a friend's. Best way is to do what Hairy says and go separately.

Agree with Hairy

Your partner has to attend his brotherson wedding. No question. I think I would probably attend that one with him. It's irritating and disappointing, but can't be helped.

Thank you for all your comments. Think I will have to lump it and go to partner's brother's wedding. Grrrrr