My dd9 was choked by neighbour's son also 9 until my ds8 pulled him off. I sent the boy home and 10 minutes later his dad, whom I'm certain was drunk, came to house and said she must have deserved it because she was annoying him and I was lucky boy's mum hadn't come to house!! I'm almost as angry with father as son. We have been neighbours for several years and I didn't see this coming as they seem to be prim and proper on surface. Should I report to police?