How to reject an invitation to an esteemed and exclusive club.....?

[wannabelolly]

Particularly when the initiation ceremony is rather off colour and involves bestial necrophilia and could be somewhat embarrassing if any one ever found out.

Yawn!

Boring!

And you do know the whole story has now been revealed as made up, yes?

Might you be better off writing this query to momsnet (or whatever a US equivalent is called).

I've heard some pretty dreadful things about their university fraternity initiation rites (not least in an interview with John Barrowman).