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Ttc 2nd baby... So hard

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Hopefornumber2 · 14/08/2015 10:57

My dh and I are ttc baby number 2.
I am of course so grateful the joy that our dd (2yrs) has given us and am so thankful to have her.
I can't help however to feel hollow as I struggle to complete our family. Cycle 11 of trying and not prevented since dd was born.
My tests all came back fine. Dh to have his tests done.
This process is so heartbreaking every month another let down.
This is for all those ttc no#2 who secretly shed tears. Feel like a failure. That I cannot give my dd the sibling she longs for. Sad
Any advice? Anyone in same boat? My af due tomorrow. Bfn so far.

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oneummah89 · 19/08/2015 23:54

Hey Hun,

Your message touch my heart. Look u need to stop putting pressure on yourself and be patient. These things happen when u are less stress.

I just had a baby 3 months ago and she is my first, I understand the longing for a child.

But seriously u need to relax and take it easy, it will happen and ur not in control of this so u are not a failure

zanuda · 20/08/2015 12:48

It was a research (statistics) that showed that those who are trying for baby and in stress by any reason got pregnant 45% less time then those who are not in stress... With doing all the other things like healthy eating and lifestyle try to avoid getting into stress situations.

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