Nude pictures online

[Birdchronicle23]

I found out last night that my fiancé has been taking nude photos of me without me knowing and uploading them on a profile as me on a fetish site for feeders and telling people how much weight I've gained and what I eat. He took some when I was sleeping and others when I was around the house.
I feel violated and disgusted not to mention that he describes my fat and now lost all confidence, trust.

He is begging and apologising and saying he was figuring out this fetish that disgusts him.

We have been together 4 years and he has been amazing and supportive. This is like a different person.

We are buying a house together which should complete this week and getting married early next yeAr.

What do I do?

Thank you.
It's just so entangled our lives. He works for my family and I'm worried how they will cope without him but if they knew they'd loath him I'm sure.

I just feel so blown away by it all. No warning and then my whole life changed and ruined in one evening.

I can't believe he risked everything for this.

Disentangling him from your life will set you free, bird.

You're right, no doubt your family would be sickened if they knew - tell them. I know it must be a very scary prospect, but there is no reason for you to protect him now. Rip off the plaster and let your family help you.

Oh, and I know it feels like your life is ruined right now (and I'm so, so sorry it feels that way), but it isn't. Thank god you didn't marry this scumbag.

I second the fact that you don't have to tell family what's caused you to break up, say something that is unforgivable but that you don't want to discuss it at all.
Your family will cope. If he has anything about him at all he'll move on.

I'm also relieved for you that you hadn't moved in to the new house and certainly that you're not married.

Hope you're okay, OP