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How do I stop the broodyness!?

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hayley0924 · 13/12/2014 14:59

So.. Hi guys! First time iv posted in here, but I guess you guys would be the best for advice on this. All I can think about is having a baby! I have so many reasons why I can't, I already have 2 beautiful Childern 3 and 5, a new partner of under a year so not ready for a baby, I work full time in a new job, and I do try to tell myself all this but I just can't stop the need to have a baby. Will the pass? I'm only 21, is this a phase or will this feeling just not stop until I have a baby? It's driving me insane, am i the only one to have an obsession with needing a baby?

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gamerchick · 13/12/2014 15:12

Borrow a few toddlers for a full day and night?

Heyho111 · 14/12/2014 09:37

It is probably linked to being in a new relationship. Unfortunetly the more we tell our brains we don't want something the more our brains say we want it.
You could try to give yourself a plan. If this relationship continues we will try for a baby this time next year. That way your not telling yourself no and giving yourself a goal. Set other goals as well. Like a holiday , doing up a room, etc. it's so hard to fight these feelings.

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