my youngest is in my drama production which is 40 miles from home and needs a very early start. My eldest ds is 15 and wants to stay at home so he can go out with friends, I,consider him to be trustworthy.
I am not sure if leaving him at home with no other family nearby when I am going to be 40 miles away is reasonable. His dad will be away working and so not around that day either.
What would you do?