mmm, problem not sure how to deal with, I (unknowingly to him) get my 12 year old son's Facebook instant chat messages come up on my mobile when he's chatting. I always knew the day would come when things would get a bit close to or over the edge, but of course as soon as I talk to him about it, he'll know I get the messages and change his settings so I can't see them anymore. (He's got aspergers, doesn't live with me so banning him from it would be very difficult)
I'm pleased I can monitor it as it stands, and would want to know if he was engaging in chats that were damaging or threatening to him.
So he gets a gay porn picture from his friend of 2 butch men engaging in sex, and I'm thinking what to do? I'm sure it's not unusual to have this between kids sadly these days, but I'm concerned, do I step in now or monitor it and wait off it to get worse (that I hope it does not obviously)
And if I step in, how?