Having failed to be offered a place at Caterham School (very local and we realise now, too academic) can anyone recommend a good school, preferably non-selective, offering good sports and pastoral care in the south east. Considering weekly boarding to do away with the homework blues and may prove to be a better environment. Also, does anyone have an opinion on whether the following sound suitable; Gordon's School, RAA, Worth, Royal Russell, The Cedars, Sackville, Sutton Valence. Probably too late for 2014 but really need help with such a huge decision, thanks.