I want to attend an event but do not want my friends to see it ???

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I've been invited to a few New Years parties and haven't really said yes yo any keeping my options open. I want to reply on fb as that is the how the invite was sent but do not want to offend my other friends.

Send a PM?

Yes I think that may be the only way

Answer maybe on all invites?

I often find a Facebook guest list is about as useful as a chocolate teapot to indicate who actually attends. They are a very informal way of sharing event details.