In 7 months time my brother is getting married abroad and my husband and I are arguing about what we should do.
We have been looking at the cost of flights and it is not possible for DH, DD and I to all go.
My DH thinks I should just go on my own but I feel that DD should go with me - she will be only 2yrs and 5 months at the time of the wedding.
DH thinks DD will be OK without me, but I don't feel that I could leave her for a whole week - I've never spent more than 9 hours apart from her - plus at the moment I'm still BF and don't want to have a pressurised deadline to stop BF.
Obviously taking DD costs more for flights, accomodation etc. but I think if we start saving now and make some cut backs we can save enough.