Mil cutting ds's hair

[Roastbeefandyorkshires]

Posted before about strained relationship with mil. Things have been civil for past few months, we had in laws over for Christmas and boxing day which went smoothly.

However, mil looked after ds yesterday as I work and I suspect she has cut his hair. He is 18 months and has lovely curly hair which she knows I was not planning to cut yet.

My question is how do I go about confronting her without losing it!

I've asked DH to phone her to ask her first

Any advice welcome: )

If it's not so noticeable that you can only 'suspect' she's cut it then I would say let it go. And be glad she's able/willing to look after DS!

It's only hair, anyway.

If it would be obvious I would be saving something. I love my DD's hair, she's 14mo and DH's family keep mentioning getting it cut....I keep making it clear that it's not on the cards yet or until she actually needs it cutting!