I feel lucky we missed it as hubby not on 50k hes on 41k and thourght when announced was 42k.
Hubbys retail manager so orks some evenings/weekends/bank hols.
we have 3kids age 6, 3 and 19months.
we lost £40 a month tax credits in april.
we live southwest rent privatly going rent round here for 3bed is£700+. we not eligible for affordbale housing or housing benefit.
we cant afford to buy a house.
no free school dinners ,£130 a month council tax. no free prescriptions despite being close to border and everyone getting free prescriptions in wales.
I am currently a sahm as childcare costs are so high.
I did go back fulltime after my 1st but job was not child freindly was salary 20k a year gross £1200 i think net of which 800+went staight on nursery bills, then commuting hardly seeing child or hubby as did alternate shifts. I used to work in deprived areas where saw peeople gettng every benefit under the sun , wasting money, whinging used to make me slightly narked.
This year went to uni open day to look into retraining as social worker as when kids all in school i need to be earning decent salary to pay childcare costs to make it worth while.
but 9grand a year tuition fees mean cant go back uni and retrain.
childcare costs even in school as know someone with 4kids well 3 at primary and is a teacher.
breckfast club-£2.50
afterschool club £7-thats only until 5.30
say £10 per child £30 a day =£150 a week.
parents who use holiday club outside provider which covers only small amount of holidays ie 2/6week summer holiday is £65 per week per child.
I know a few kids in senior and more siblings in yera 6 bus moneys £60 per month per child.
School dinners is £40 month per child-we dont as too costly but 3kids at school-common number round her £120 a month.
middle dd just started preschool in sept shes sept born so just missecd school year dont get grant until term after jan but preschool wouldent hold place so paying £450 for sept-jan.
she already does private day nursery from 18months £40 a day some may describe this as luxury but fater having eldest in nursery due to working i can see how earky years education can benefit a child and their devlopment since dd started preschool shes scored higher than her age. shes got freinds too as i have no family with kids nearby or freinds with kids same age.
eldest does rainbows from age 5 which is luckily cheap, gym and cheerleading not so much but she enjoys it and think good for kids to have hibbies especially when her state school had no extra curricular.
uniform-huge cost as head wouldent allow no n official cardigans £10 which parents constantly complaining are lost mine lost hers 3times last year £30 labeled with name looked in lost property nothing.
Another freind has to buy new uniform as her schools converted to an academy.
Senior parents say the secondry uniform costs are huge.
There are so many costs with families and think the changes penalise families where 1parent works.
Its uk kids i feel sorry for we such an expensive country feel family life is rubbish as people working alternate shifts, long hours. when i worked fulltime i missed a lot of my eldest as a toddler.
Even when they older they still time consuming
school runs
playates
parties
homework
just general parenting
we havent ever been abroad with kids as its £300 just for new passports.
we dont use private schools.
we rarly go out.
we shop at lidls.
my local fb selling group very affluent area is very busy I can see how squeezed middle is affected as see it every day. It feels worse now than during. the crunch
Do the lower earners really need any more when they get loads other benefits.
be much better cap at 2kids
put more money into childcare.
consider outgoings as well as income as childcare so high and not very flexible
most nurserys dont open until 8am and shut at 6
shut banks holds and our old one whole week at xmas when we worked in retail!
Also the whole mum not having money worries me as know some with some very tigh controlling dhs.
The winter fuel for wealthy pensioners who live in spain winds me up.
yes there are some poor pensioners just not near me.