Someone is going to be very upset, and it is me who gets to decide who. Can you help me make this decision?
Recently penciled in a day for LO Christening. I wanted to check with prospective Godparents that they could do the day, but didn't want to tell them more than it was the day for the Christening as I want to ask them in person.
(Not real names in following... obviously)
Hermione has rearranged their work to be able to make it and did so within days, really amazing effort as she doesn't know the full story!
We saw Harry at the weekend who was delighted and has told his wife to book the day off from a job it is difficult to get the day off from (despite the fact they have just lost a baby and are going through other sad family problems too).
And then the people I thought I could really count on (closest to me) have told me that they can't do the day. Hagrid has to work late the night before and Molly is on a hen do. This also means their kids will be baby sat by other family members.
I think they expect me to change the day. But a week earlier they are on holiday. I could ask the viccar if he can do the week following, but what about those others who have already made plans/ going through difficult stuff?
Oh Help!! (DP thinks that if people can't make it then it's their problem, it is our day and they should change things to be there). Is he right? Who do I upset?