I just need some advice. I do a college course full time and my son has paid for childcare through it. I have had to have quite a bit of time off due to illness recently. I have a problem though as I am meant to be going on a friend's hen weekend which would mean missing 2 days of college. I feel like it would be really bad missing college when I have been off so much and get my childcare paid for but I would feel awful letting my friend down at such short notice. What would you do?