i have been told that for me to adopt a child of English and white decent is a bad thing for me to have done, my name is Leon and i am 31 years and am living in the rural end of Dorset. i have a child and a wonderful family me and my husband work in well paid jobs but i find myself still in need of the states help in my cash flow. i need help because although me and my husband are very happy since are civil partnership i have still had problems with my child, i cannot hit him or shout at him but with two men in the house i understand the child's confusion and lack of compassion with no feminine influence in his life. how do i give my child what he needs.