ah just returned from Oakwood park knackered and with the kids full of McDonalds! to be honest look its my blog, i've just started it and it reflects my thoughts - just like millions of others out there. i'm a muppet with technology and couldn't find where my blog was so i mentioned it on here - which seemed like the only relevant place. as for patronising, i've had plenty of feedback that says otherwise but if thats your opinion then hey. i had no intention of being a condasending bloke trying to teach you wimmin to cook - it actually hurts me to think that - honest. just wanted to contribute and do you know what i think i can so you don't scare me. and also, i dont want your pity but lay off with the foul mouthed abuse and digs at grammar, 'advice' i can deal with but i have some literacy difficulties and have overcome a huge obstacle to become to teacher and find it offensive. anyway hope damage can be undone