I know what you're saying re the kids Joni but it may not be voluntary.
Tbh I feel a bit sorry for her getting pilloried in the press over it (assuming it's an access arrangement rather than just a jolly) I can't imagine any mother making that choice willingly, but if you had to I'm guessing that spending the festive season wrapped round the likes of Daniel Craig would be a pretty good way to take your mind off it!