ds1's mate smoking

[jooseyfruit]

just seen one of ds's (13) mates smoking a faaaaag.

do I grass him up to his mum?
I know her to say hi to and have a chat.

or leave it?

I don't have his mums phone number but one of my very good mates is her cousin so I could get it , OR ask my mate.

I would want to know if someone had seen my ds smoking.

WWYD?

I wouldn't grass.

why?

I like your thinking Maryz, thank you. It's such a minefield.