Infatuated with a neighbour

[Wishicould]

VERY happily married but totally infatuated with someone else. Never before felt like this and actually been tempted to be unfaithful. Judging aside, how can i start a conversation with a someone i've only ever said hello to?

Don't even try!

if you are "very happily married", I think you should keep your distance from this man.

If you are determined to have a conversation, how difficult can it be to speak to a neighbour? Just pretend it is a middle-aged woman and chat about what you would talk to her about IYSWIM

Just a crush. Keep it to yourself and don't entertain it.

VERY happily married, really!?

I also fail to see how you can be infatuated with someone you've only ever said hello to, blimey.

very happily married but wondering how to start a conversation with an object of infatuation? okaaaaaay...

Do you have snow? Weather is the usual icebreaker innit?

and actually, i posted too hastily. I can actually understand an infatuation like that. When i was with exH I was obsessed with my bank manager. We were both married. My marriage was a sham though and I think that obsession should have been a warning sign.

Run. Run, run away, and don't speak to him.

Ever.

Pure fantasy