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I am highly intelligent, ask me anything

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nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:01

Using standard IQ scales/assessments I am highly intelligent. I have also done some research into high intelligence. Being highly intelligent has advantages and drawbacks. Ask me anything :-)

(Just to preempt some comments: No, I don’t think intelligent people are better human beings than other people. I think qualities such as being kind are more important for example. No, intelligent people are not always ‘better for society’, there is some evidence, for example, that really highly intelligent people carry out proportionally somewhat more crimes (white collar). No, I don’t look down on less intelligent people (sometimes I envy them), but it can obviously be a bit difficult to connect if you have very different frames of reference. No, intelligence does not have any direct links to social skills (positive or negative).)

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CousinBette · 22/02/2026 09:49

How did you pay for all the postgraduate degrees?

Do you agree with the saying that if you’re the most intelligent person in the room, you’re in the wrong room?

I’d also like to know (as did a pp) if you believe trans women are women.

maskymask · 22/02/2026 09:49

Do you lack common sense?

How do you channel your memory, or is that not possible? I have a great memory but for things like shark attacks, radio jingles, songs, etc not so much for educational things!

Janeaway · 22/02/2026 09:50

Would you say you're vain? Do you use beauty products? Have you had cosmetic surgery?

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:50

@NerdyBird Haven't watched High Potential.

Re other TV shows - I watch 1 % sometimes and don't get the last question every time, they are very difficult. There are other shows that I would probably do quite well on but I'm not interested. I am not sure why, I have had quite a lot of attention in other areas of my life (intelligence related ones being one of them) so prefer to stick to that.

Election - I vote tactically in the constituency I live. Getting a fairer society is my main aim. I find it shocking that in our 'civilised' society there are food banks, and a growing number of food banks, and so many people seem to think that 'everyone can make it' when life odds are so stacked against masses of people.

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ThiagoJones · 22/02/2026 09:50

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:09

Why did I start this thread - maybe to see if I could get any insight from how people may think of me? It has often been quite obvious that I can 'think ahead','get things' quickly etc and it has not always been helpful. I probably come across as arrogant sometimes even when I am genuinely only trying to be helpful. So that means I try to stop myself from contributing sometimes.

The thing is, I doubt people really think much about you at all. I’m not saying that to be cruel, just pointing out that your ‘high intelligence’ will be far more important to you than anyone else.

CamillaMcCauley · 22/02/2026 09:50

You’re not giving very clear or detailed descriptions of what it’s really like to experience the world as a highly intelligent person.

Is that because it’s just too hard to explain in a way that dum-dums like the rest of us can understand?

2chocolateoranges · 22/02/2026 09:51

My eldest is highly intelligent, however he has no common sense.

do you have common sense, do you think the two are linked (intelligence and common sense)

TheSmallAssassin · 22/02/2026 09:51

ThiagoJones · 22/02/2026 09:50

The thing is, I doubt people really think much about you at all. I’m not saying that to be cruel, just pointing out that your ‘high intelligence’ will be far more important to you than anyone else.

Yet there are so many people on this thread trying to take the OP down a peg or two.

maskymask · 22/02/2026 09:53

TheSmallAssassin · 22/02/2026 09:51

Yet there are so many people on this thread trying to take the OP down a peg or two.

It’s MNs, very typical!

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:53

Isit2026yet · 22/02/2026 09:42

@nolinkname was this an official MENSA test or just one online. You're still not answering the IQ question.

My thoughts are there are people commenting on this post a lot more intelligent than yourself!

Yes, it was an official Mensa test in my second language, so I'd arguably have had an even higher score if I had understood all words ;-)

You are free to think whatever you want about me and anyone else writing here. It is not my life aim to come across as intelligent, rather the opposite probably, since it often leads to so much anger/annoyance and so many misunderstandings if I am myself completely.

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Squirrelchops1 · 22/02/2026 09:53

What is your emotional intelligence like?

ThiagoJones · 22/02/2026 09:54

TheSmallAssassin · 22/02/2026 09:51

Yet there are so many people on this thread trying to take the OP down a peg or two.

Well I meant people in real life really. When people interact with others in real life, they don’t tend to be dwelling much on their intelligence levels.
On every single thread on MN there are people trying to take others down a peg or two, intelligent or not!

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:54

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 22/02/2026 09:44

Are your closest friends all intelligent? Presumably they realise your skills so do you think it can affect the relationships in some way ?

Is intelligence a bit of a prerequisite in your relationships ? I'm thick as a post so can't quite picture how it affects things.

Yes, based on it being easier to connect with people when you can be yourself. People generally become friends with people who are similar to themselves in many ways and that includes intelligence.

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Indianajet · 22/02/2026 09:55

singthing · 22/02/2026 09:11

Should giraffes wear ties at the top or bottom of their necks?

I have often debated that with my sons!

IfThen · 22/02/2026 09:56

TheSmallAssassin · 22/02/2026 09:51

Yet there are so many people on this thread trying to take the OP down a peg or two.

Not me. Though I think the tone of the thread has been set by the OP not appearing to have a great deal of emotional intelligence, judging by her replies, plus of course the fact that this is the internet. I mean, she could claim to have broken all the standard IQ tests, such is her brilliance, and actually be a lonely lorry driver who left school at 15, trolling from a lay-by near Felixstowe.

JLou08 · 22/02/2026 09:56

Do you think there is a link between high intelligence and narcissistic personality disorder? Are there links with high intelligence and other mental health conditions?

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:57

OtterlyAstounding · 22/02/2026 09:45

"Yes, I get frustrated too about almost always having to wait for people to 'get it' :-( I don't want to get frustrated, but inevitably I do. For others - think about having to explain everything to a child. Slightly crude, but you get the gist."

How often are you discussing very erudite things that other people don't 'get'? Surely it can't come up that often in day-to-day life? Do you ever wonder if perhaps you're just not very good at explaining things? After all, 'high intelligence' doesn't automatically mean 'good communicator'.

I don't necessarily mean when I explain things, but when someone else explains something and a group of people are learning it (trying to learn it). This can be in an education setting or in a work setting. I often get new information/ideas/concepts very quickly and have to wait for others to 'catch up'.

I think I'm a reasonable teacher. I have been very appreciated by many students at different levels, super clever ones as well as people who struggle, but who really want to learn.

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gototogo · 22/02/2026 09:58

@Nevermind17. Totally relate, I refuse to watch 1% club because of the fact the contestants don’t see the plainly obvious. Only connect we prefer as it’s varied, that combination of things that are in based and those that are knowledge, I’d be rubbish at mastermind though as I’m a jack of all trades knowledge wise. I have dc and one is very high in, the other “merely” above average (their dad my ex is highly intelligent yet stupid in equal measure)

FlatErica · 22/02/2026 09:58

How many times have you published in the top five journals in your field?

Vanillalime · 22/02/2026 09:59

On an AMA asking the giraffe/tie question is usually a light-hearted way of seeing how someone engages socially. Calling it pointless comes across as dismissive, which slightly undercuts the point about not looking down on others.

I’d like you to answer the Only Connect question - how quickly do you complete the wall?

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:59

IfThen · 22/02/2026 09:48

I think that’s nonsense. It’s not that difficult to find other highly intelligent people in adulthood. I met many of my closest friends during my (three) postgraduate degrees and while working as an academic. (I married someone fully as intelligent as I am, but slightly differently so, and we have a clever child.)

I've read a lot of research articles discussing the fact that many people struggle to find equal/good/fruitful human connections, so I believe it is a case for many, but obviously not to everyone.

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WonderingWanda · 22/02/2026 10:00

Do you think you have a creative side? Do you have any creative hobbies?

lifeisgoodrightnow · 22/02/2026 10:00

Do you find it lonely? I’ve a Mensa tested IQ of 156 and it can be extremely lonely sometimes when so many people aren’t on my wavelength but it does make those connections I do make extremely strong. I get tired of dumbing down to fit in.

Also do you find it difficult to follow social patterns that the more averagely intelligent people get more easily ? I put my foot in it frequently.

justpassmethemouse · 22/02/2026 10:00

nolinkname · 22/02/2026 09:09

Why did I start this thread - maybe to see if I could get any insight from how people may think of me? It has often been quite obvious that I can 'think ahead','get things' quickly etc and it has not always been helpful. I probably come across as arrogant sometimes even when I am genuinely only trying to be helpful. So that means I try to stop myself from contributing sometimes.

I think this thread is quite an arrogant thing to do. If something is true, it doesn’t need to be stated, it speaks for itself…

MischkasMum · 22/02/2026 10:00

OrangeCrushes · 22/02/2026 09:06

What made you decide to start this thread?

My thoughts exactly.

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