Thank for starting this thread, OP. I don’t have many questions right now but I have 2 friends who have borderline personality disorder and they are amazing people, so I think the diagnosis carries unjustified negative connotations. I will ask something later on though.
One comment though. I don’t think this was meant in a bad faith but I think it’s a bit rude to insinuate that the OP might have been misdiagnosed. There is a time and place for this discussion but it can’t be nice for the OP to immediately justify themselves.