I’m a Cam Girl AMA.

[CammyAnnie]

Since becoming a cam girl I have noticed a lot of people are very stereotypical. So interested to know what people want to know about us.

Have you ever been recognised?

@Smithhy No, never. I’ve had people talk to me from the area I live in and I’ve still never been outed or recognised.

how do you protect your self esteem?

What exactly do you do for your clients

and do you make your face look unrecognisable?

@garlicandsapphires I’m fairly thick skinned when it comes to criticism. I’ve always understood I won’t be to everyone’s taste.

I also think there’s an element of knowing the majority of men who are online are obviously lacking some of it themselves so I don’t take anything to heart. - That said, I don’t often get any negative comments, quite the opposite. If anything it’s given me more confidence in my appearance.. which I suppose is a symptom of being fed compliments every day (even when I know it’s just to get something out of me)

@Naran It varies. It depends on what I feel like I want to do for them. They can ask me whatever they like (because they’re paying for every second they’re asking me a question) and if I don’t want to, I’ll decline.

I’m much tamer than some other cam girls. I don’t do below belt nudity. I’m mostly a lingerie only girl with a tip toy, so they still feel like they’re getting something without the nudity.

Face wise I do wear my hair differently and wear much heavier makeup than i normally do. I’ll contour my face to look slightly different too. Although I don’t always have my face on camera either.

What do you mean by ‘a lot of people are very stereotypical’?

Do you get weird request? And do you do full frontal nudity

@FishStreet That all can girls are dirty hussies with no real jobs, and no self esteem or self respect.

@MrsMamaa Yes, I definitely get a lot of weird requests. I can safely safe there is a kink in everything.

I don’t do any below belt nudity. I do however take nude photos from angles which don’t give away everything.

Are you typically attractive or more niche?

Also do you have a partner, if so what do they think? If not, are you worried it could put men off getting in to a relationship with you?

Is this your FT job? Or does it supplement your main job?

Also are you self-employed or do you go via a platform?

Do you feel that you are contributing to desensitising men that women are real people with thoughts, feelings and emotions by flaunting yourself as a sexual object?

How would you feel if it came to light that a man viewed you being provocative and got turned on but as he had no partner he went out and assaulted a woman.

Do you think what you are doing is helping to contribute to some men thinking that all women are the same?

Of course you can act one way on camera and be prim and proper in real life but can you see that some men wouldn't be able to distinguish the two and would believe that being overtly sexual on camera is not a role you are playing but that you free and easy with your affections and therefore other women are like that too?

Well, I have no opinions on your physical (or moral) hygiene, or your likely level of self-respect/-esteem, but I would certainly wonder what kinds of circumstances meant you took a job that can’t be fulfilling or interesting, surely, if it involves eternally pretending to masturbate in your knickers?

I was friends with someone who put herself through her doctorate via working phone sex lines (1990s, so fairly early internet days), and found it mind-numbingly dull, but it was a means to an end, as she was a foreigner on a student visa and very limited in terms of what work she could do. Is it the same for you?

I would say I’m above average in the face (not bragging just trying to be as honest as I can) I’ve always had a lot of compliments on my face/facial features throughout my life.

Body wise I’m not typically attractive. I’m not what today’s society would place as the most attractive. I’m very short, not skinny (size 14) with large breasts. But there’s someone for everyone and I was surprised at the amount of men who like big natural breasts. Although my face gets the most comments even when camming.

I have a husband, I started camming after we were married and it was something we would often joke about and then one day we were stuck for money and we decided to just try it. We discuss everything and always make sure we’re on the same page. I respect DH boundaries when camming. There are things he wouldn’t be comfortable with me doing and that’s fair enough.

It supplements my main job. I have a full time job.

I am self employed.

How many hours per week do you donut and what does it pay? Thanks

That was supposed to read “do you do it” not donut 🤣 bet there’s a kink for that

In short, no.

I’m very authentic on camera, I don’t change my personality to suit the men. They get what’s on the tin. Not all camming is sexual, I would guess at 40% of the camming I do is primarily filling a lonely void for these men. Some are widowed, some terminal, some just lack confidence and want someone they can act confident to. As I don’t engage in below belt nudity I mostly just chat and flirt. Some conversations don’t have any sexual aspect at all.

I wouldn’t hold any responsibility for a man assaulting anyone just because they’ve viewed me online. I can’t make someone, nor can I prevent someone assaulting anyone from a virtual cam session. Unless obviously they had mentioned anything of concern that might make me think they are thinking of assaulting anyone, in which case there are provisions to report users. The rules are very strict.

There are some men who want a ‘girlfriend experience’ which requires essentially pretending to be their girlfriend for an extended period of time while being paid weekly. However I’ve not engaged in this as I have my own life outside of cramming that means I don’t have time for a virtual boyfriend 😂

It is mind numbingly dull. Men can be gross, cringey and just boring while thinking they’re hot shit.

But I’m extremely money motivated. I also do it on top of my full time job so my brain is being enriched outside of camming I promise 😂

Giggling away at donut😂

I do around 2-3 hours in the evening on evenings where I can be bothered. I’ll also do a couple of hours during the day on weekends if we don’t have plans. I’d say I average maybe 10/12 hours in a week.

What I make varies massively but usually between 300 and 500 a week.

How much do you charge per hour/minute?

I find it strange that blokes would pay much if you don't do full nudity.

Are you much cheaper than the women who do?

How long did it take to stop being surprised at requests? Dh and I have joked before that you could type anything into google and someone somewhere would be looking for porn about it! Do you think people go to cam girls to ask for things they might be embarrassed to with an actual partner?