We’ve all had breast reductions - happy to help

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Setting up as thread 2 is now full here

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/AMA/4876452-weve-had-breast-reductions-ask-us-anything?reply=134967968

props to @bigtitsbettyforgotherpassword And all who contribute.

They have said that it could be swelling as that breast is a week behind the there? Why did you need a second surgery if you don’t mind me asking ? Did you experience the right feeling under breasts too ?

They were a bit wonky 😂 well noticeably different in size so he tidied them up

Speak to your medical team but also take it easy on yourself.

I really think you should be doing very little for first 2-3 weeks, no lifting, very gentle exercise, eating and drinking healthily.

Give your body (and mind) time to recover.

Thank you. I feel that I am quite alone in this tight band feeling although medical team are saying it’s normal doesn’t seem to be here??
I am taking it easy although hard with young child. Been allowing screens all day just to survive as he won’t play alone.

You were brave going under again. I’m scared for life

I'm so sorry you're having a difficult recovery. I can certainly see why you'd be feeling down and anxious. Definitely go and speak to your doctor or else your GP. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health. Keep us up to date.

Bless you thank you. I def will once I am strong enough. So far biggest regret as don’t even have a good result 😢 I can live with botched breast once I regain my strength. I would never have another op unless my life depended on it x

I’m sorry that you’re having a bad time @Autumngirl7. definitely keep on at your surgical team for advice.

We might be limited in our replies here as we have all had reductions of breast tissue rather than implants so have had different surgery. I imagine post-op instructions are similar but recover time/healljng would be very different.

Not brave at all, it’s just it was expensive and I wanted the best result possible, I’ve also had a lot of not voluntary surgery so it becomes a bit more everyday. I really trusted my surgeon too. It sounds like your surgeon and care team and letting you down. Please call them on their emergency number and talk to someone, they are there to help and support you. You’ve had a rough time they need to help you through it.

@Autumngirl7 as above, speak to the clinic/ surgeon for advice. Do not sit getting anxious or get lost in the stories on the internet. The breast that had the additional work will be more swollen than the other due to the work, as it's effectively dealing with 2 surgeries. I had one boob that felt much more sore than the other for a large part of my recovery. It eventually settled down. You really have to allow time for this process as it is slow, and incremental and just can't be rushed. Everyone recovers differently and you have to pay attention to how you feel.

As a few people mentioned above I have also had a hysterectomy and that/ the recovery was a relative walk in the park compared to the breast reduction surgery. Get some professional advice and insist on being seen as often as you need to feel OK about how things are going. My surgeon/ her team were at the end of the phone if I needed them .. that's what you pay for.

Hi I have had breast reduction, uplift and implant removal x

Thank you so much. I pray thats the case with my breasts. It’s good that you can relate to the slow recovery it’s much worse than I ever thought obv made worse by my hematoma. I can call the hospital with any worries which I am doing and going weekly at present. My biggest concern is the tightness. Thanks for all replies

I’m getting a reduction/lift at the end of September so am reading all these threads here and trying to catch up.

Mine were massive and shrank down many times due to pregnancy etc. and now they don’t look huge but when I take the bra off they are just very flat at the top, almost like a dent where the nipples should be. I would be a G (but look smaller) as the texture of them is like water now.

i feel like a fraud here because I actually did like having bigger boobs, and I like fake looking ones too.😁 My main reason would be cosmetic I suppose, the lift. I spoke to the surgeon and he was saying all honest things like it’s major surgery, it will only happen again in a few years, and I will have huge scars with my pale skin etc.

I feel like with everyone here it was straightforward, you hated them they were hurting you and there was no questioning the decision. Whereas I get really anxious around medical procedures and I might go into a bit of a dip afterwards, especially as I have a choice here. I will be reading all of your experiences with interest. 💕Thanks x

Going for a walk is not overdoing it, this is not your fault at all. I would be very similar to you and blaming myself for things but you have had three things done in the surgery, reduction, lift and implant removal. Then a second surgery after 2 weeks. That’s a lot.
You will recover and be ok again. If you look at Dr. William Miami on YouTube he says that people do get anxious but surgeons can fix up and intervene during the healing process.

Also watch funny things, funny films. I know it’s not easy for you now but this will help you mentally x x

Thank you for your comment. I’m just struggling as I’m taking one step forwards and four back. Had stitches cut Wednesday so body can absorb them. Was horrendous when she pulled them. Was not too bad yesterday apart from extreme tightness but in the night last night I was awoken with pain. First night in a while. The bad side is throbbing with a deep ache. No swelling as yet. Guess will need to call hospital again. When will I catch a break. Can’t carry on like this just one thing after another. 😭

How are you doing today?

You seem to have a lot in your plate and it must be hard to rest after the operation with young children. Is there anyone that could give you a break? Hope you are on the mend x

Hi everyone! I'm currently on day 8 after my reduction last week.

Was a 30H, not sure on the new size.

Just looking for scar treatment recommendations please ???

i think scar treatment doesn’t start until about 3 weeks +

silicone strips at night and scar gel every day, I think Prosil is good but very expensive.

What did your surgeon say?

How are you feeling??

I saw her yesterday and had my binder taken off, so just in a compression bra now. Not applying any treatment yet. Just quick showers, thoroughly drying and then back in the bra. But want to get some ordered and ready!

I feel ok actually. First week was so easy compared to what I thought it would be. But I am a single mum, so my mum stayed to help, and I think it was just eye opening to not have to do everything for once, so felt more like a holiday than recovery ! Hahaha.

This week the bruising is feeling more sensitive, but still totally manageable.

I didn't use any Scar treatment and two years down the line mine are almost noticeable

I had a reduction 9 weeks ago - F to D. All went well and I survived the heatwave in the compression bra! My issue now is with side boobs...

My surgeon said it's just swelling and will eventually go down - did anyone else have this? And if so, when did it go back to normal?

It's so uncomfortable, during the day I can feel it like a couple of pillows at my sides, but it's almost agony at night when I turn from sleeping on one side to the other.

Shouldn't be agony. But does take ages

Shouldn't be agony. But does take ages

Shouldn't be agony. But does take ages

Hello, thanks for this thread and all your candid posts and experiences!
I am considering breast reduction, im in my late 50s, always uncomfortable with big boobs. I’ve been doubtful, thinking it’s a bit frivolous, etc, but feel this is my time before I get older. I am planning to go private. I appreciate your advice about
1 good surgeons near bath and prices for private surgery
2 how long realistically is the recovery time, what are the stages,
3 how I prepare better for it, physically, mentally (losing weight, food, etc? and how to manage recovery
4 how to deal with social pressure or questions about it
5 any other advice or encouragement
thanks a lot