I’m an escort, AMA.

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hi,

been an escort since February now and doing rather well. I have lots of strange stories and experiences so think I’m able to answer some questions lol!

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Actually my self esteem has gone up. A lot of the men come back again and again because they enjoy my company etc. a lot of my feedback is saying that they enjoy my company after the sex as I don’t kick them out etc.

i have BPD, but I would never ever touch drugs etc. i can see why people would get into it.

This is fascinating, but I worry about your long term mental health from doing this. Do you really love it, or do you just love the money? And do you ever feel dirty after? I'm not saying you should feel like that, I'm just saying I would, so how do you feel after seeing a client?

how would you react if someone you know booked you?

Do you pay into a private pension plan?

i can honestly see why people would worry about mental health. But I think because I only do it every other weekend i can recharge.

i find it mentally draining talking to people all day, but I can honestly say hand on heart I enjoy it. I have friends who sleep with numerous men a week from tinder etc and have caught all sorts. I use protection 100% but also tested every 6 weeks.

I have had that! I recognised a guy who I think teaches football locally.

tbh it wouldn’t bother me because I’m sure they wouldn’t want their secret out either.

iv Just started looking into this!

Do you have an investment and exit plan?

So £3000 a month to have sex with around 30 men. Do you not value yourself more than that? Why not go back to studying and better yourself for you and your children rather than put so little worth on yourself. I personally think it’s incredibly degrading but each to their own.

you said you’d be unhappy if your daughter wanted to do only fans. What if she wanted to sit in a hotel all weekend having sex with numerous men for what she could earn elsewhere?

I don’t right now. I’m just enjoying being able to have semi nice life with my family. Also being able to help out my sister is a huge bonus!

Max out your pension and pay into premium bonds to build up accessible savings.

Do you have a partner or husband?

I have dyslexia, and I failed all my gcses. There is a very very slim chance I could earn what I earn now with the flexibility of being there for my children every day before and after school.

It would be 20ish not 30.

Husband.

been married 10 years. We don’t have a sex life (haven’t for 2 years) due to health reasons with Dh. He is 10000% supportive because I have taken a huge weight off his shoulders for being the main earner and paying for everything and 3 children. I was working a normal job before this and with childcare etc I made a max of £800 a month.

It's not too late to get an education as there's so much support available for adults with dyslexia now. You could go back to college when your kids are at school so it doesn't impact your work & family life.

www.bdadyslexia.org.uk/

Do you worry about the impact on your children when they’re older? How old are they and how many do you have?

Many people have dyslexia and have successful careers without selling sex so I don’t think it’s a justifiable reason. What will you do after when you’re no longer wanting to do sex work or can’t make money from it? You’re not earning enough to be able to stop work all together so what’s the plan for when you’re out of the game? How long left on your mortgage or do you rent?

Good for you.

It’s more than I earn in fairness and I have a masters degree, and work full time.

How do you advertise?

Do you get a change of sheets for each client?

Do you do oral without? Have you got a coated tongue? Are you HPV positive?

I don’t envy your money or what you have to do to get it.

Whose idea was it for you get into sex work again? I’m concerned that your husband seems to have no issue with his wife selling her body to numerous men every weekend…