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I have dreadlocks. AMA

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DreadsVanLocksDarling · 02/11/2020 15:34

Not that it matters, not that it's a big deal, not that you (should) care but if you've ever wanted to ask someone with dreadlocks a question or if you think of any now, feel free to ask me.

Anything at all, doesn't matter how it comes across. Happy to answer Smile

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RedMarauder · 02/11/2020 16:33

@whitianga

What does 4c mean?
www.healthline.com/health/beauty-skin-care/types-of-hair
GreenPlum · 02/11/2020 16:40

How long are they? Are they heavy?

WunWun · 02/11/2020 16:42

Have you ever had headlice?

DreadsVanLocksDarling · 02/11/2020 17:01

@Imicola

How do you look after them and wash them? And actually how does one get dreadlocks, do they form on their own or do you need to create them? Finally, how do they smell? Thanks, I've always wondered these things, but never knew anyone to ask!
You're welcome Smile I have the answer to a part of your question in a post above and to answer further, I wash my hair in the shower as normal. It's how I did it before locs and it hasn't given me any problems so i continued. Hair first, then body.

You can create them or you can leave them to form on their own. Ours have been left to form on their own because it's less fuss and I don’t like the manipulation of creating them (sensitive scalp and tenderheaded).

I've 'cheated' on the freeforming though by separating the already locked ones when they try to grab more locs and lock up further into very big pieces. I just pull them apart gently or use a small scissors to cut them apart if they've locked up too hard. I follow the first sizes they locked into and only separate those straying too far away from those sizes. I'm not zealous about uniform sizes, just don't want to have a head of 3 huge loc pieces. Not my personal preference but that's what mine would probably do if left alone completely. Mine locked into thinner/slimmer and a lot more pieces, DD's are medium-thicker pieces because her hair strands are thicker than mine.

Different hair textures can lock up but the length of time it takes and how easily it does depends on the texture. The more coarse, 'coily-er' and curlier one's hair is, the faster and easier it locks because it naturally does that within minutes if not kept stretched. The straighter it is, the harder it will be because nothing keeps it 'sealed' with or bound to each other.

So to achieve locs, if one has straighter hair, can often take much longer and most times, a bit of manipulation to get it started. This includes not washing or combing it for a long period of time so it doesn't untangle.

For our hair, washing it actually tangles it up quicker so locs form faster the more you wash and leave alone. Combing is detangling/untangling and for our hair, unless you untangle a section and hold it straight or braid it or straighten it, it will tangle back immediately. After about a week or a few weeks/months, the tangles start separating themselves naturally into locked strands/pieces of hair. The inbetween stages (when it's forming) can make you look a bit odd especially the straighter your hair is. If it's curlier or coily-er you may get away with looking like you're sporting a 'style'.

I have less coily hair around my edges (extremely soft and baby-fine) and they have taken longer to lock than other strands which are coarse and densely coily.

My hair smells like shampoo and jelly 😄 They can smell sweaty if not washed. Used to use a lovely pantene shampoo that smelled fantastic but alas! The scalp said no to it and dozens of other products. Aveeno doesn't have (much) perfume and irritants to my scalp so it just smells clean and faintly of soap and jelly.

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DreadsVanLocksDarling · 02/11/2020 17:02

@Janaih

Ok I'll go there. Are you black?
Yes.
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zatarontoast · 02/11/2020 17:08

I'm not zealous about uniform sizes, just don't want to have a head of 3 huge loc pieces. Not my personal preference but that's what mine would probably do if left alone completely

My mind is literally blown at reading this! Does this mean that having your hair in locs is actually less work than if it was not locced?

DreadsVanLocksDarling · 02/11/2020 17:25

@Trousersareoverrated

How do you find people react to you compared to when you had no dreadlocks?
I would say it's been the same normal way. We live in a predominantly white town and round here, people are either generally nice or just go about their day minding their own business. My kind of place Smile

I have had my hair in different styles (afro, straightened, braids, scarf) and I've not been treated differently (that I've noticed or cared to check but I know if there's been anything significant, I'd notice).

Response from friends (of different ethnicities) have ranged from "Different hair, interesting" to "Ooh, looks great", etc.

It's either no one cares or they don't want to show they care. Either way, I'm okay.😀

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DreadsVanLocksDarling · 02/11/2020 17:45

@KaptainKaveman

Yes I have sometimes wondered if they smell bad.
They would if not clean, just like everyother hair Smile

It's a sad stereotype even within the black community.

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Nookable · 02/11/2020 17:56

How long do they take to dry after you've washed them?
And do you do anything to dry them or just let th air dry?

AvoidingRealHumans · 02/11/2020 18:01

Are you a rasta?

RaininSummer · 02/11/2020 18:03

Surprisingly interesting. I too didn't realise that the hair would naturally loc in this way.

ihatesandpits · 02/11/2020 18:05

Could you post a picture I absolutely love dreads and would love to have them but being white Im worried how it would come across and possible abuse I've seen received

DreadsVanLocksDarling · 02/11/2020 18:22

@BaitandSwitch

Does it hurt having dreadlocks? They are always plaited so tight to the scalp, they look uncomfortable.

Also how long does it take to a head of dreadlocks? Do you do it yourself or get someone else to do it?

How long do you go before you take out the dreadlocks and redo them?

They may hurt if they aren't freeform...that is if you create them and continue to create them (maintain them to look 'manicured'. By that, one will have to get them rolled and sealed and I can imagine it hurts judging by the braids I had growing up, especially if you're tenderheaded. But once a little loose (after a few days to a week, they wouldn't hurt anymore).

Ours don't hurt at all because I didn't form them and they are not pulling at the roots due to being rolled or pulled into a braid or twist. They are loosely attached to themselves in the way that's comfortable to them. The roots are loose. They start locking from about an inch away. Nature knows what it's doing.😀 Though, it means our roots and locs are fuzzy and full- looking (with no visible scalp or gaps between). I like them that way. Then again, I've never liked 'manicured' hair - even when I wore my hair straight, I liked them to look slightly tousled - flyaways, a bit of frizz and all.Smile

Since mine are freeform locs, the other questions don't apply to me but to try to answer from what I know, those who have 'manicured' ones usually go to a salon or find someone to redo/roll/lock the new growth. It's possible someone can do it by themselves but I've never seen that. Those who semi-freeform (they create it initially by twisting or braiding their hair to either help it along quicker or to form desired sizes or both, then leave it to lock without further maintenance/rolling) can do that first twist or braid by themselves or go to someone/salon to do so.

When it's time to redo, the locks aren't taken out. The new growth is just rolled (usually with some type of gel or something binding) till they get to the older ones, then stop. So the roots look all new and shiny for sometime. Some can trim the fuzz off the old ones to make them look new enough to match the new roots.

It's usually up to the individual to decide when they feel they need a redo. It's the same with braids or any other hairstyle. Some do it more frequently than others.Smile

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DreadsVanLocksDarling · 02/11/2020 18:25

Sorry about the typos. I try to read and edit but still miss some😁

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Imicola · 02/11/2020 18:29

Interesting! I always had the impression they couldn't be washed, but I wonder if I have conflated the unwashed, straight, caucasian hair variety as you've said with straighter hair you might need to get it started by not washing. Do you blow dry it after washing? I guess I also assumed the length of time it takes to dry might lead to a smell.

audweb · 02/11/2020 18:30

@StartingGridGo

Does your head/hair smell?

I've never got that close to anyone with dreadlocks but they look like they must stink.

That is so rude. You know dreadlocks are washed just like normal hair right? Why would you think they wouldn’t be.
Miseryl · 02/11/2020 18:33

Do you feel it is cultural appropriation/offensive to you when white people have dreadlocks?

StillWeRise · 02/11/2020 18:39

@Miseryl

Do you feel it is cultural appropriation/offensive to you when white people have dreadlocks?
yes, I wanted to ask that too! But can you also answer re headlice- I see you have a DD and I don't think I ever came across a child who never had headlice.
fitzbilly · 02/11/2020 18:45

I'm reading with interest as I have locks that are only a year old so I'm still learning!

I'm white but my hair is very course, so I did form them to start with using the twist and rip method and now just interlock the new root growth with a crochet hook (every four weeks or so).

I can confirm that my dreads don't smell either, I wash my hair three times a week the same as I did before dreads!

zatarontoast · 02/11/2020 18:46

Why is everyone asking about a smell? Does hair have a bad smell if it hasn't been washed, whether it's Caucasian or Afro?

zatarontoast · 02/11/2020 18:48

OP do you ever feel that your locs have prevented you from getting a job or opportunities? I read that quite a bit from black instagrammers.

LunaLoveFood · 02/11/2020 18:59

Are they heavy? I know someone with such long dreadlocks that she piles on top of her head and they just look really heavy.

MrsMoastyToasty · 02/11/2020 19:37

Do you wear beads etc in your dreads? Are accessories for dreadlocks expensive?

NoMoreMrNiceGaius · 02/11/2020 19:46

Is it not uncomfortable to sleep on them?
Are you a man or a woman?
How long is your hair?
Do you ever have a problem fitting your hair in hats/hoodies etc?
What is your honest opinion about white people with dreadlocks?
If your hair is long, can you still put it up easily if it's hot/to get it out of the way?

Thank you for the AMA, I love all things hair care and this is a really one

DeusEx · 02/11/2020 19:48

How does the jelly work - doesn’t it make your hair greasy?